Like most people, I like the satisfaction of being right and getting what I want.
However, I love being wrong... That's when the really cool stuff happens!
When I was in college I signed up for the free "UNCC karate club" so I could learn better fighting skills...
I got something far more valuable. I learned the ability to keep a cool head and avoid getting in fights.
I once made a horrible mistake while snowboarding. I thought for a brief yet eternal moment (as I flew through the air) that I'd never walk again. I did fracture my spine and experience the most severe pain I can imagine, but that day changed me in very positive ways. Also, I was snowboarding again 6 weeks later.
I decided to not date anyone for a while so I could focus on massage school.
The woman who changed my mind became my wife and my best friend... and I'm still MADLY in love with her 15 years later.
I took a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu class hoping to regain my ability to "keep a cool head and avoid getting in fights." Well, that actually worked... But I got something even better in discovering a community of intelligent, fun, creative people and a joyful sport that challenged me and changed me in numerous positive ways. The good folks of I trained with are forever family to me.
I took up barefoot walking and running in the hopes of helping my chronic foot and knee pain. I was thinking I'd probably run a marathon someday. I thought I might lose some "middle age fat gain" too. I lost zero pounds in 2 years. Now I'm thinking I'll probably never run a marathon, and that's OK... My pain is gone, my feet and knees are happy, and I can run whenever I want for the sheer joy of it!
I tried eating paleo for a month thinking it would be bland and boring and might help my joint aches.
I've never enjoyed food so much in my life! The joint aches took a full month to go away, but they did -along with all that middle aged fat gain! Even better, I discovered a huge community of intelligent and open-minded people who are quietly creating a revolution in human health.
The point of all this late-night rambling?
If you're thinking...
"Oh, I could never do that." (Whatever THAT might be...)
Well, you're probably right.
So long as you think you can't... You won't be proven wrong.
But maybe, just maybe, you're thinking, "Maybe I can?"
In that case, whatever it is... GO for it!
Maybe you'll get lucky! Maybe you can.
Or... if you're really lucky, maybe you'll be wrong,
and you will discover something even better.
OK, now go outside and play! Love, Mo the human